February 5th, 2012
Voting Question: Am i wrong for being angry?
I got married last Sunday. My biological father has never been a big part of my life he lives in Russia I haven’t seen him in ten years but we occasionally small talk on the phone. I lived most of my life with my mom and her husband. My stepfather pretended to be nice to me when he was courting my mom but after she let him move in with us his true colors came out he became emotionally abusive to me and treated me without respect he’s always put me down and never bothered to establish and maintain a relationship with me he even tried setting my mom against me I also think that overall he’s not a good person because he treats those around him like crap he’s sleazy and a repulsive person. I first told my mom I didn’t want him at my wedding she clearly knows I don’t like him and she’s allowed him to treat me like crap but she insisted that I allow him at the wedding blaming it on my mood swings not taking my request seriously I guess she didn’t want him to be offended I gave in and said he can come at the wedding I was gonna have her walk me down the isle she kept saying fifteen minutes before the ceremony that he needs to walk me down the isle I kept saying no no I want u I told her at least three times then while I’m waiting by the door to enter the room and walk while the music is already playing she runs up to me and says cmon u should let him walk u it was a minute before heading out so I was ok ok he can do it because I didn’t have the energy or time to argue now a few days after the wedding its all sinking in I’m so angry I called my mom and asked her why she did that why she ruined my wedding she said its tradition and she didn’t want the guests to think she doesn’t have a man she said I’m moody again and don’t really mean to be angry people say he had a huge smile on his face when he walked me that’s very sweet but he shouldn’t have the privelage of giving me away am I wrong?
